Everyone has been talking about the sad ending to the sex movie of the year, Fifty Shades Freed. We all have different reasons of why we like the books and movies. We either enjoy the thriller aspects of it or the sex itself. There’s typically no in between. Fifty shades of grey explores fantasies and the extremes of sex. Some may say that the scenes are too wild and couldn’t happen in real life. Arguably not all the scenes were rough and naughty but the majority of them have us sitting on the edge of our seats staring into the screen.

     It makes you wonder if you could attempt what Mr. Grey does. First thing that comes to mind is the use of blind folds. Being blind folded can heighten your sense which means you can feel everything that is going on down there. Whether you are having sex or oral, it will be more pleasurable and fun. Therefore, blind folds in the bedroom are not too crazy. Also, in multiple scenes, Mr. Grey uses restraints on Anastasia. These too are a great way to build the intensity and amplify your senses during sex. Restraints can vary from actual hand cuffs to silky bands to anything that can tie into a knot. Having your partner tie you up during sex can be fun and sexy. The feeling of being tied up to result in more orgasms for many reasons but mainly due to feeling dominated by your significant other. Which we can all agree is something Mr. Grey does frequently.

     Somethings Christen Grey also uses on his beautiful wife, as we have seen in Fifty shades of Grey, are whips, crops, and floggers. This now is coming to the more kinkier and wilder side of sex where people start to ask questions. A flogger is what everyone usually thinks of as a whip, where it has fringe on the end of it made of leather, rubber and even ribbon. The usage of whips and crops can be a fun part of sex when you and your partner have good communication throughout. A person who may want to introduce whips into the bedroom, may enjoy being spanked and would like to take things to the next level. Couples must remember that because you are using whips does not mean you can swing as hard as you can. You must remember you’re not in a contest for how hard you can whip but to see how much pleasure you can give.

     Now, getting into the serious stuff is the usage of nipple clamps and spreader bars. The words “nipple clamps” themselves sound painful. However, it is something people like and enjoy exploring. The reason people may adore this sex toy is because of the server nipple stimulation that derives from it. Some nipples are more sensitive than others, what can I say. How you use this item is super important because you don’t want to hurt the other person. To solve this problem, you should test it out first on yourself to figure out which setting and pressure is best, then on your partner. Spreader bars on the other hand, are in my opinion, on top of the list of kinky things.  They seem to be a venture you must try once, if you dare. A spreader bar is an interesting type of equipment that is designed to keep your legs apart, generally attached to your ankles, but some may be placed between your thighs. The bars are there to provide easier access, more pleasure and better positioning. Spreader bars help you achieve more stimulation in positions like doggy and legs up missionary.

     Unfortunately, you are not Christian Grey and not all will have the same taste of erotic sex as he does. However, as you can see, there are many interesting and sensual ways you can spice up the bedroom. Whether it is stimulating your nipples with clamps or blind folding your partner, you do what is comfortable to you. Don’t forget to always set up a safe word with your partner and make to remember to have fun!