Orgasms are fun! You can achieve them by masturbating, with your partner or in some cases, with more than one partner at a time. However, it is not always an easy task. It can take a long time and serious work to accomplish for women. For men, there can be factors that makes you less likely to have an orgasm.
Sometimes we wish our partners can go on for hours during sex. However, it can get tiring when your partner doesn’t have an orgasm. You think to yourself of what you’re doing wrong and why they’re not finishing already. Some reasons a guy won’t finish can be for different reasons.
A guy might be masturbating too much affecting his ability to finish. His body is used to one way of finishing and is harder to orgasm another way. Those on the other party shouldn’t feel embarrassed or at fault because it’s not.
A guy might also be taking certain medications or drugs that may affect his opportunity to have an orgasm. If this is the case, he should have a discussion with his doctor to see if there are alternatives for he to take.
We have all heard of the term “whiskey d**k.” It is a real side effect of what happens when you drink too much. You go to that frat party and find your “soulmate.” You both decide to have sex but you can’t because your friend between your legs is not as focused as he should be. Alcohol is a boner-killer and the reason you are not having an orgasm.
Sometimes the answer a guy can’t finish is because he has things going on in his life. It’s possible he has anxiety and doesn’t want to disappoint. It is also possible he is stressed about something in his family. It can be anything. It is important to be considerate.
Females should be focused on the pleasures she is receiving and stimulation during sex. Think about everything that is happening. Think about every movement and touch that is making you feel this sensation. Once your brain is in this calm state of thought, your body is relaxed, ready for an orgasm. Try your best to keep your nerves at a minimum.
Another trick women should try is contracting your pelvis muscles during sex. Tightening this muscle can maximize sexual arousal. This will increase blood flow and help you on your way to an orgasm.
Couples should practice together intense foreplay. The more intense the better. During foreplay, you increase arousal and stimulation by the anticipation of orgasming. You should keep this going on until you are almost fully satisfied and prepped for sex.
Some women benefit from masturbating before sex to give herself an orgasm. This a trick to try because the body is now already relaxed and is more likely to orgasm quicker. The opposite of this is to have sex and stop every time you are close. This may sound absurd because the goal is to have an orgasm. However, if you tease yourself enough, you will end up having a more powerful orgasm in the end.
Remember not to beat yourself up in any situation. Everything will be okay. Be safe and talk to your partner with what makes you comfortable. It’s okay to be a horny husky.