Whether you like it or not, you have a dirty mind. You may think that you’re “normal” and never have kinky thoughts. But the truth is, your brain creates different sexual scenarios and fantasies all the time, especially during Halloween. Now, what exactly is a fantasy? A fantasy is when you imagine something that seems out of the norm or you think could never happen in reality but certainly can in some cases. Since Halloween is next week, we are all thinking of the same thing. Who we are going to be? How we are going to look? Are we going to dress up at all? The fun part about Halloween is that we can be silly and playful without taking ourselves too seriously. Particularly during sex, we get to explore our fantasies during Halloween.
Proclaiming our secret fantasies and role-playing ideas during Halloween, can get the creative flow going in your sex life that may be missing. It can give us the chance to explore submission and domination or voyeurism. We all have desires and arousals. Therefore, Halloween is the perfect chance to give in to our naughtiness in a childlike innocence. Some ideas of what this can be is maybe a nurse, who just so happens to need a large “tongue depressor” for her patient or a teacher disciplining her student after getting the “D”. There is an array of different scenarios you can consider and discuss with your partner.

       Dressing up can be a fun experience and you can even throw in some candy to sweeten things up. And after Halloween, you can then continue this playfulness of trying things out. This means opening up to other possibilities and fantasies that may or may not include: having sex in public setting, having a threesome, shower sex, surprise oral, etc. With any fantasy you may have, you have to be open with your partner and be comfortable exploring them.

       Now that we understand fantasies and the benefits of going after them. There have been online confessions about boning Pennywise the dancing clown from the horror film, IT. These “confessions” are on Tumblr and to say the least they are very scandalous. Some say that he is not only a scary symbol but also a sex symbol. Those that have commented have said that they are attracted to the sexiness and the danger. One comments that his red clown lips are so plump and are ready for action. As weird as these statements may sound, people legitimately have these feelings. Going back all the way to Dracula, people are reconsidering all the past horror icons as sex symbols now.  It is becoming a new genre of kinky. Obviously, this is not for everyone but it is still a thing. It is actually called coulrophilia. This is when a person is sexually attracted to clowns, mimes, or jesters. It is the attraction of the mystery of not knowing what is behind the painted white face.

      This Halloween will only be fun if you make it to be. Remember that communicating with your partner the fantasies you are think of is important and you shouldn’t be embarrassed of them. Don’t forget to be safe and that Halloween is not only for children. So, go out and fulfill those sexy fantasies.