Typically, when giving or receiving oral, we have many thoughts going through our minds. We also have our own techniques and preferences we use or like during oral. I interviewed a few students to get their insights and perspectives of what you like or don’t care for when receiving oral, as well as other interesting topics along the way.
According to one male student, “simply putting your mouth on my penis and going up and down, does not go far”. Licking the tip can be a cute teaser once in a while but for a serious session, it can be annoying. We all know Blac Chyna has made this mistake by the looks of her leaked sex video. This student also goes as far as to say that he enjoys when the person knows what they are doing. For example, “when she is actually sucking on it like a lollipop, it feels amazing”.
Another male student agrees to this notion by saying it’s a turn on when the person is confident with what they are doing. They also mentioned how eye contact, different positions and using hands are all turn ons for him. Both mention how the biggest turn on, is when the person is into giving the blowjob. Sexual partners sometimes feel that they need to give oral because it is either routine or you love it so much, but they might not feel the same way. With anything sexual, remember not to feel forced to do anything you don’t want to do and have fun. Your partner wants to make you feel good not the other way around.
A turn off for both, were the usage of teeth and “misuse” of the penis. A technique to remember is to be different with your styles because if giving head is a casual thing, then it can get boring with repition. Using your touching everywhere, grabbing lightly on their balls and stroking the penis while sucking can all be ways to heighten the pleasure given to the guy. However, these are all suggestions and should be communicated if one thing makes you feel good while the others don’t. Make sure to take into consideration that cradling balls is not for everyone.
Positions can be interesting as to which ones may be considered the “best or worst”. It turns out that both male students agreed that laying on their backs is the most comfortable position. They also agreed by stating, “there are no bad positions when receiving head”. The second male student stated standing up while getting head is also a nice position to consider.
Commonly again, both male students stated that when they are giving oral to their partners, they think of how they want them to feel good and enjoy every minute. The first student proclaimed that when giving oral, he hoped it felt good because the next thing he wants to do is get ready for sex. When asked where the craziest places they have received or gave oral, the students had totally different answers. The first male student tells how his wildest get together was in the rainforest and ocean in the island of Puerto Rico. Meanwhile, the craziest place the second male student had received or given was in the back of the car while his parents women driving.
Giving women oral is a different ballpark. There are a lot of factors to put into consideration when going down ona girl. After interviewing two different women about receiving oral, we realized that women tend to be more confidential with their opinions of oral while the men were willing to answer any of our questions. Our first female student stated she doesn’t really like when guys go down on her because she’d rather have sex than jump around the bush. A second female student, on the other hand, tells how receiving oral is what determines how the rest of the night will be. If the oral is good and the person does it right, then the sex will probably be good and pleasurable. If the person doesn’t know how to go down on a girl then it can ruin the rest of the night.
When talking about “eating a girl out”, it can depend on the girl for the definition of what makes it feel good. The second female student mentions how the person must focus on the clit and just the clit. However, others may disagree by saying it’s the outer vagina and the kissing that makes oral so much more pleasurable. There is never a set-in stone definition of what is correct, but both agreed on knowing how to use your tongue.
As you can tell, the views on receiving and giving can be different and the opinions are more open than others. Oral can be a make it or break it moment for both genders. At the end of the day, communication is key. Tell your partner what you are into and what you may not like.
Have fun and keep on licking!